Flying is a wondrous human marvel that we’re lucky to be able to experience. In my humble aviatrix opinion, “flying” happens as much on the ground as it does in the air, and I’m not talking about reading regs or tabulating a flight plan, although there is a time and place for those also. I mean that the aviation world is broad and sweeping and exists in so many ways in addition to being airborne at times, although we're prone to tunnel vision. It whimsically fills the invisible voids we don’t consciously acknowledge. It is live, encapsulating poetry. Here, I’ll write about some ways I hope you’ll find even more acute and deep value and meaning in your flying.
Mindfully appreciate the community
Make flying more than a hobby or job starting by conversing with other aviators about flying and non-flying. This goes without saying but it warrants reiteration: pilots are a special breed. We’re cut from a cloth woven with fibers of tenacity, exploration, fearlessness, and a slew of other incredibly rad traits. Inhale that power and exhale gratitude.
Branch out with balance
As an enthusiastic advocate of treating yourself, and a broken record about how short life is, this is me asking you to add a new dimension to your flying. Whether it is a lighter-than-air adventure, a whirl in a vintage war-bird, that trip you've wanted to take before that specific jet retires, or any other idea you've probably side-lined, grow your breadth of flying into a more well-rounded facet of your identity. Equally important, try not to prioritize flying at the expense of other core pieces of yourself - don't neglect or shrink your other passions.
Take the window/wing pic
On the ground and in the air, take a moment to stop and smell the roses AKA look out the window and admire/document the view. One Merriam-Webster definition of a luxury is "something adding to pleasure or comfort but not absolutely necessary," which is pretty vague, so take a moment to contemplate what could be considered a luxury by your own interpretation in your life.
Take your time but don't waste it
When I was in private pilot training in a PA-28-161, a jet flew overhead and my CFI pointed and said, “The only difference between them & you is time.” It was a misleadingly simple sentiment right then, but one that I've since applied to lots of things. Be patient; whatever it is, it is worth the wait (and on that note, I challenge you to redefine "wait"). On the other hand, don't become complacent while getting comfortable; practice finding comfort in discomfort and bask in the subsequent growth.
Become an optimistic realist
I don't subscribe to the “anything is possible” mentality but rather: anything is possible within reason. Do not get hung up on (i.e. waste time) not being able do something, gracefully roll with the punches and enjoy the wild ride that is your life.
These are a handful of perspectives that I hope you can resonate with to make your flying even more empowering and powerful. No matter how/why you got into aviation, I think for most of us, there's no going back, and you're in great company. Take a New York minute today to reflect on how far you've come. You are crushing it at being you.